Excerpts from Lincoln's letter to his son's teacher
He will have to learn, Steer him away from envy, Let him learn early that the bullies are the easiest to lick... In the school teach him it is far honourable to fail than to cheat... Try to give my son the strength not to follow the crowd Teach him to listen to all men... Teach him if you can, how to laugh when he is sad... Teach him to close his ears to a howling mob This is a big order, but see what you can do... He is such a fine fellow, my son!
I know, that all men are not just,
all men are not true.
But teach him also that for every scoundrel there is a hero;
that for every selfish Politician, there is a dedicated leader...
Teach him for every enemy there is a friend,
if you can, teach him the secret of quiet laughter.
Teach him, if you can, the wonder of books...
But also give him quiet time to ponder
the eternal mystery of birds in the sky, bees in the sun,
and the flowers on a green hillside.
Teach him to have faith in his own ideas, even if everyone tells him they are wrong... Teach him to be gentle with gentle people, and tough with the tough.
when everyone is getting on the band wagon...
but teach him also to filter all he hears on a screen of truth,
and take only the good that comes through.
Teach him there is no shame in tears,
Teach him to scoff at cynics and to beware of too much sweetness...
Teach him to sell his brawn and brain to the highest bidders
but never to put a price-tag on his heart and soul.
and to stand and fight if he thinks he's right.
Treat him gently, but do not cuddle him,
because only the test of fire makes fine steel.
Let him have the courage to be impatient...
let him have the patience to be brave.
Teach him always to have sublime faith in himself,
because then he will have sublime faith in mankind.